I heard Tim Ferriss speak about the essential business skills young entrepreneurs (or perhaps anyone who’s keen) should pick up to get an edge*. One of which was “negotiation and deal-making.” I took a note of it and began to put together a list of the best books out there to master the art of negotiation and deal-making.
This isn’t an exhaustive list by any measure but these are the best books out there. The links in orange are the ones I have read, studied and personally recommend. Be sure to build up your wishlist on Amazon:
- Getting More: How You Can Negotiate to Succeed in Work and Life, by Stuart Diamond
- Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler
- Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, by Robert B. Cialdini
- Bargaining for Advantage: Negotiation Strategies for Reasonable People, by G. Richard Shell
- Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In, by Roger Fisher, William L. Ury, and Bruce Patton
- Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It by Chris Voss and Tahl Raz
- Kiss, Bow, or Shake Hands: The Bestselling Guide to Doing Business in More Than 60 Countries by Terri Morrison and Wayne A. Conaway
- Negotiation Genius: How to Overcome Obstacles and Achieve Brilliant Results at the Bargaining Table and Beyond by Deepak Malhotra
- Beyond Reason: Using Emotions as You Negotiate by Roger Fisher and Daniel Shapiro
- Getting Ready to Negotiate: The Getting to Yes Workbook by Roger Fisher and Danny Ertel
- The Confidence Code: The Science And Art Of Self-Assurance—What Women Should Know By Katty Kay And Claire Shipman
- Perfecting Your Pitch: How To Succeed In Business And In Life By Finding Words That Work By Ronald M. Shapiro
- The Global Negotiator: Making, Managing And Mending Deals Around The World In The Twenty-First Century By Jeswald W. Salacuse
- Getting To Yes With Yourself: And Other Worthy Opponents By William Ury
- Persuasion Equation: The Subtle Science Of Getting Your Way By Mark Rodgers
- The Thirty-Six Strategems (companion to The Art of War) by Sun Tzu
- Beyond the Chicken Dance by Charles Newman
- Power Up; Speak Up; Be Heard by Kay White
- Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff
- Beyond Winning: Negotiating to Create Value in Deals and Disputes by Robert Mnookin
- Getting Past No: Negotiating With Difficult People by Roger Fisher and William Ury
- Stalling for Time: My Life as an FBI Hostage Negotiator by Gary Noesner
- How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
- The Essentials of Job Negotiations: Proven Strategies for Getting What You Want by Terri R. Kurtzberg and Charles E. Naquin
- Great Negotiations: Agreements that Changed the Modern World by Fredrik Stanton
- Negotiate to Win: The 21 Rules for Successful Negotiating by Jim Thomas
- Negotiation Boot Camp: How to Resolve Conflict, Satisfy Customers, and Make Better Deals by Ed Browdow
- 3D Negotiation: Powerful Tools to Change the Game in Your Most Important Deals by David Lax and James Sebinius
- Negotiation: Strategies for Mutual Gain by Lavinia Hall
- The Only Negotiating Guide You’ll Ever Need: 101 Ways to Win Every Time in Any Situation by Peter Stark and Jane Flaherty
- Start with NO… The Negotiating Tools that the Pros Don’t Want You to Know by Jim Camp
- Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen and Roger Fisher
- Looking for Spinoza: Joy, Sorrow, and the Feeling Brain by Antonio Domasio
- Descartes’ Error: Emotion, Reason, and the Human Brain by Antonio Domasio
- Primal Leadership: Unleashing the Power of Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman, Richard E. Boyatzis, and Annie McKee
- The Emotional Brain: The Mysterious Underpinnings of Emotional Life by Joseph Ledoux
- Negotiating Rationally by Max Bazerman
I hope you enjoy reading these on your path to becoming a master negotiator and deal-maker. Hit me up if I’ve missed out a book that you should think ought to be part of this list.
Disclaimer: the links above are NOT affiliate links and don’t get (or want) any revenue from Amazon.com. And I default to Kindle editions because I love to read on Kindle (besides, I don’t have enough space to store physical books!).
*Sorry! I don’t have the episode details. I was driving when I heard him talk about this. I’ll be on a lookout for details of that episode. Will find it and link it above.
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