Tag: be yourself

  • Learning to be more selfish

    I think selfishness can be a virtue if thoughtfully applied to our lives. Check out this insightful video to get more clarity on this radical idea: I also did the suggested thought exercise, which requires us to expand on this prompt: If I dared to be more selfish, I would… It was an amazing experience […]

  • The only way to become an established authority…

    Everyone wants to be one. And they want it fast. Authority, influence and power might as well be the most desired and valued social recognition in the 21st century. We can blame it on the internet but I would say it was meant to be this way. We can’t help but change with the times. […]

  • Do what you can’t!

    Alright, let’s face it — if you are creative or think outside-the-box or just want to push the envelope, you will almost always experience resistance. Now that could mean lack of support, perspective, encouragement or a blend of it. I find that incredibly stupid, given that it took you ages just to muster courage to […]

  • Using a methodology shouldn’t change you, the person

    If you’ve been a coach or a trainer for any length of time you sure would’ve been hit with the “that’s how we do this here.” Haven’t you? And trust me, it’s not just the coaches or trainers, it’s technically everyone who’s working for someone or is part of an organization or community. While I […]

  • Fuck all!

    When people don’t live up to your expectations When you pour your heart out creating your craft (writing, poetry, art, or music) but people won’t care When you work hard to make a significant change but bureaucracy fucks you up When you try to help but get kicked in the rear When you try to […]